I know there are a lot of people who read my blog silently. They never comment. They never give me any indication that they have read it. But the numbers speak for themselves. Over 600 readers per entry, on average. And sometimes they’re not silent. I am so lucky to have received beautiful emails from people in my own backyard, and people from across the world who know and understand what it’s like to be a mommy to a baby like Everlee. Whether I hear from you or not, if you are part of this baby lost world, thank you for reading, and thank you for being on this journey with me. And so, in that spirit I want to use my blog to tell those mothers like me about an event that was brought to my attention recently (Thank you CB for passing this information along. Below is the information sent to me from Jacintha Penney of pastoral care at the Health Sciences here in St. John’s.
The Walk to Remember is for women and families who have experienced peri-natal loss like miscarriage, stillbirth, ectopic pregnancy, newborn death, etc. On Sunday October 6th We meet at the Bungalow at 2pm on in Bowring Park. There is a brief program where we read the names of babies who have died and have a musical selection. You will be given some Baby’s Breath and invited to wear a pink or blue ribbon. People not sure of the sex of their baby can wear a white, yellow, or green ribbon. Then, we have a short walk “around the loop” to an area known as Angels’ Grove. This will be the 16th year that a commemorative tree planting ceremony has taken place to honour our children. Afterwards, we have a social time and there are cookies and coffee/tea/juice.
Some women come alone or with their partner. Others bring their families. It all depends on what people find personally meaningful. Please give me a call at 777-6959 if you have any questions or if I haven’t explained this well enough. We try and start at 2pm so it’s always good if people show up a bit before then.
I will be attending. And invite those moms who may be out there who read my blog to come along as well. I have met so many people who have told me that they’ve only recently found strength to talk about their lost babies because I have written about Everlee. I will be there to remember my daughter, and the children of others who are loved and lost. And I would love to remember others with her and meet other parents like me. if anyone would like to reach out to me about this please do so. My email is rhonda dot mcmeekin at gmail dot com. I answer every email I get.
What a wonderful idea. So glad that you can pass this along to other families, that have experienced the same feeling of loss and sadness. Wish I could be there for Everlee and the walk. I will be thinking of all of you on that special day, but it is no different than all my days, because you are always in my thoughts and prayers. Love Mom/McMom and Grandma
This is a wonderful idea.
Sounds like it will be a very memorable day for all. Hoping October 6th will be a sunny beautiful day and all the little angels will be looking down on their Mommy’s and Daddy’s. Hoping this helps a little with the Healing. Love Aunt Mary and Uncle Paul. Date: Wed, 18 Sep 2013 13:26:11 +0000 To: email@example.com
WHAT A BEAUTIFUL IDEA , I WONT BE HERE BUT WILL KEEP YOU DARCY AND EVERLEE IN MY THOUGHTS ..XXXOO
I think that is such an important and amazing way to bring families together to remember, share and know that they are here with lots of others… I hope it is a good day, although I know it will be hard.
awesome idea, love it and love you
I attend the walk too, maybe I’ll see you there, with my family. You don’t know me, I’ve only commented once, near he beginning, but I do stop by often to read… Your journey of grieving and mothering your Everlee is so fresh, mine of my Noah is over 5 years now but still, so much, pulls at my Heart, reminds me of me. Thanks.
Jane please say hi if you see me 🙂